ConnectMums

Mums Talk

Getting back to work…

March 19, 2012 by Sai in Mums Talk with 2 Comments

Written by Prabha Choubina, Photography by Anandaraj Rajakumar:

Getting back to work, after six years of break, was tough to say the least. It has only been a few weeks now…

When I considered going back to work, I had anticipated a lot of things – physical exhaustion, chaotic mornings, untidy home, hurried meal times, long drawn chores, temper tantrums, complex child-care arrangements, added costs of childcare etc. I had also anticipated overjoy at the prospect of getting a job in my chosen field (specially when the job market is not so cheerful!), new energy and enthusiasm.

Guess what, the tantrums, the chaos, the expenses and all the unfavourable bits came flooding but the joy, energy and drive were just not what I had thought it would be! As the days passed by, things settled a bit, of course with help from husband, friends and childminder. I wouldn’t say everything is smooth sailing now, but we’ll get there.

When I started work, it was a bag of mixed emotions. I don’t regret at all staying at home to raise my daughter. In fact I consider myself very lucky to have been able to do that. But at some point I really wanted something a bit more…

How one feels about any situation is very subjective. In my situation, I’m glad that there is a bit more structure to my day and slightly better utilization of my time (dare I add, my skills?!).

Whatever we choose to do – be a full-time mum or work, there are trade-offs. I guess, the so called ‘win-win situation’ is only a myth!

Tagged , , , , , , , , ,

Related Posts

2 Comments

  1. PrabhaJun 19, 2012 at 3:23 pmReply

    Thank you:) Nice to be appreciated:)

  2. SriviJun 15, 2012 at 1:02 pmReply

    Hi Prabha,

    You have just spoken my thoughts..many a times I think if I go to work I would have more recognition,satisfaction of contributing to the family financially,..but yes at the same time nothing comes freely..and I need to wait for a few more years until my 2 daughters 3 years and 9 months..grow up and start going the primary atleast..

    Ur post is my inspiration..Good luck and hope you get to the routine soon..

    With best wishes,
    Srivi

Leave a reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

*

Sign up for our mailing list.


Upcoming Events

There are currently no events to display.

Twitter Updates
Past Articles
  • Diwali with ConnectMums
  • Jyoti Hariharan – Guest Editor – January’14
  • Mum of the Month – Jyoti Hariharan
  • My Passion – Lego
  • Polar Space Cook
  • The Harry Potter books: A magical adventure
ConnectMums Event Pictures
ConnectMums Diwali 2012
Login